I’m Jerry Souter, therapeutic counsellor and I believe…

You don’t have to hide the spiritual parts of you. You don’t have to explain the intuitive things you feel. You don’t have to minimise your sensitivity.

Here, all of you is welcome.

I work with highly sensitive, intuitive, spiritual people who care deeply about the world, social justice, and liberation for all. I understand that the deep care and sensitivity you carry often comes with persistent grief and stress about what’s going on in the world, and burnout from trying to fix it.

I want you to know that you can come in and talk about how the world is on fire. Those conversations are welcome in this space. Because that is the backdrop to all of our other personal and professional struggles.

Your difficult conversation with your mother doesn’t exist in a vacuum. That pattern of feeling attracted to wrong-fit partners lives in the context of intergenerational trauma and patriarchal systems of oppression. To really get to the root of the one, I believe it serves us to understand the broader context of the other.

This is the heart of anti-oppressive, justice-oriented mental health care.

My practice is grounded in core values that inform every aspect of how I operate and interact with clients

Trauma-informed

I recognize and address the impacts of trauma to ensure a safer and supportive therapeutic environment.

This means I work at your pace, prioritise emotional and nervous system safety, and avoid approaches that push, overwhelm, or retraumatise. I understand that many responses labelled as “symptoms” are actually intelligent survival strategies, and we’ll work together to build choice, agency, and regulation rather than forcing change.

Anti-oppressive

I focus on how the systems and structures we live within influence mental health and contribute to distress.

This means I don’t locate your pain solely within you. We’ll name how things like capitalism, patriarchy, racism, ableism, and other oppressive systems shape stress, burnout, trauma, and self-worth, and explore ways of responding that are compassionate, realistic, and aligned with your values.

Class-aware

As a working-class therapist, I bring an explicit awareness of how class, poverty, and financial stress impact mental health, identity, access to care, and self-worth.

This means I won’t shame or pathologise you for financial stress, exhaustion, or survival-based choices. I understand how money, housing, job insecurity, and intergenerational class experiences shape your nervous system and sense of self, and I work in ways that are practical, respectful, and grounded in real-world context.

LGBTQIA+ affirming

I celebrate and affirm all identities and expressions.

This means you don’t need to educate me or defend who you are. Your gender, sexuality, relationships, and identity are respected and affirmed, and we can explore how identity, minority stress, safety, joy, and belonging intersect with your mental health, at whatever depth feels right for you.

Decolonial feminism

I challenge systems of oppression, informed by a commitment to intersectional feminism.

This means I’m attentive to power, context, and whose voices have historically been silenced or marginalised. I don’t believe healing is about adapting to harmful systems at your own expense. Our work can include grief, anger, resistance, and meaning-making, not just coping or “self-improvement.”

Multiculturally sensitive

I’m dedicated to understanding and respecting diverse cultural backgrounds and experiences.

This means I’ll ask about your cultural background, family systems, beliefs, and values, and how these shape your experiences. I won’t make assumptions or impose a one-size-fits-all model of healing, and I welcome conversations about culture, migration, intergenerational patterns, and belonging.

Sex-positive

I support a healthy relationship to your sexuality, recognising its importance in personal and relational wellbeing.

This means we can talk openly about desire, pleasure, boundaries, shame, intimacy, and relationships without judgement. I don’t assume there’s one “right” way to experience sex or connection, and I approach sexuality with curiosity and respect for your values and experiences.

Spiritually affirming

I affirm the integral role of spirituality in personal growth, honouring each person’s unique spiritual path.

This means your spiritual beliefs, practices, questions, or doubts are welcome in the therapy space. Whether your spirituality is religious, earth-based, intuitive, ancestral, symbolic, or undefined, we can gently integrate it into our work in ways that feel supportive rather than prescriptive or bypassing.

MY PERSPECTIVE ON HEALING AS HSP (HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE)

As a highly sensitive person myself, and a professional specializing in helping HSPs, I know we tend to struggle with boundaries in relationships, avoiding conflict, people-pleasing, and not getting our needs met (sometimes without even realizing it). We tend to over-give to the point of exhaustion, and we care. so. much. You might feel like you’re “too much,” or “too dramatic” or “too sensitive,” but when you’re not just dealing with your own emotions, but the emotions of the people around you, of course it heightens your own stress responses!  When you’re picking up everything everyone else is putting down, it makes it extra hard to navigate in the world. And, there isn’t a lot of awareness of this trait (even though an estimated 20% of the population share it), which means it tends to be unsupported in mental health care.

HERE’S WHAT HEALING CAN LOOK LIKE FOR HSPs

  • Being able to name what you need clearly so you can have healthier relationships

  • Staying connected to the people you care about without losing yourself in the process

  • Letting your grief and anger exist without there being something wrong with you, because it’s part of being human

  • Being affected by the state of the world and finding small ways to take action instead of shutting down

  • Being able to say no without feeling like you’re a terrible person afterward

  • Recognizing that your sensitivity isn’t a problem to fix, but one of your greatest strengths

  • Healing isn’t about becoming less sensitive. It’s about learning to live a meaningful, fulfilling life without having to change who you are to survive.

  • reconnecting with inner safety (this is the foundation of our work)

  • grounding emotional overwhelm so you have a tool to prevent shutdown, or come back from it more quickly

  • healing attachment wounds and relational patterns so you can finally be yourself

  • understanding spiritual or intuitive experiences (spoiler: you’re not alone, and you can talk about this in therapy)

  • integrating past experiences so you can feel more present, grounded and whole

how therapy can help

PROFESSIONAL TRAINING

Qualifications & Certifications

  • Bachelor of Counselling & Psychotherapy

  • Certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach

  • Level 3 Certificate in Advocacy for Working with Survivors of Sexual Violence

  • Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Skills

  • Certified Yoga Teacher

Volunteering

  • Griefline (Grief counselling support line)

  • Rape Crisis (Phone counselling & support group for survivors of sexual violence)

Professional Development

  • Somatic Skills for Post-Traumatic Growth

  • Mental Health First Aid Training

  • Integrative Attachment Therapy (Level 2)

  • Myth as a Therapeutic Tool

  • Eating Disorder Core Skills